By Thelma Taylor
"I told my brother I thought I would pop
the question if things looked good," Conrad King, the Pleasant NM,
Louisiana native said before his visit to Cynthiana to see Dorothy
Jenkins, the girl he had romanced by mail.
My brother said, "You have always been a
good judge of character. I guess you'll do all right but don't forget -
you can always back out." With this brotherly advice, King came to
Cynthiana in the spring of 1943 to meet a 98 pound Kentucky belle that
he only knew through letters.
King loved to tell how the courtship took
place. He was in a hospital. One lonely Sunday afternoon he asked a
fellow soldier from Kentucky if he knew a good looking girl he could
write to. The soldier said, "I sure do," and gave him
Dorothy's address.
The first letter went something like
this…..."Are you wondering how I got your address? If you will
answer my letter, I'll tell you. It gets awfully lonesome here in the
hospital and a few words from you would mean a lot to me.
"I am six feet tall and weight 170 pounds.
I have blue eyes and brown curly hair (kinky). I am single and as homely
and lonely as can be. I have been in the hospital two months. "
Dorothy didn't know whether to answer his
letter or not. Finally, she let her mother read it. She said,
"Answer it. He's just a lonely soldier." Dorothy let her
mother read the letters at first. She said the whole neighborhood read
them.
"The courtship was a community
affair," Dorothy explained. Dorothy's family had a party line
telephone. "When I called," Conrad said, "You never heard
such clicking. Everybody listened." He sent a recording and all the
girls in the neighborhood listened to it.
When Conrad got a furlough, he headed for
Cynthiana. He really liked what he saw. He asked permission to take his
new-found love to Louisiana to meet his family. He wanted to get married
during that furlough because he said he knew there were other lonely
soldiers out there wanting addresses of girls.
Dorothy said, "People around here thought
it was terrible that I married a 'strange boy' but I could not have done
better." When they were first married, they lived in Louisiana
where Conrad secured a good job at Firestone Rubber Company. Her mother
became ill and they came to Cynthiana to take care of her.
"You couldn’t buy a job in Cynthiana at
that time," Conrad said. He did some research and found that there
were very few men here trained to work in refrigeration. He took
training at Chicago Commercial Institute and received the highest grade
ever made at the school but that meant nothing to the small town of
Cynthiana.
"Cynthiana was the most clannish town I
was ever in. It was rough building a business. First I had to be
accepted. Then I had to build a reputation for my work. Suddenly things
changed. I started out in major appliance repair and had to narrow it
down to refrigerators and air conditioning. I was still busy all the
time," Conrad said.
The Louisiana native had seen snow but he had
never worked in it. During his first winter working in Cynthiana, snow
began to fall. Stanley Maffett told him to go outside and remove a leaky
tank. He came back without the tank. Maffett asked what the problem was.
Conrad said, "It's snowing out there!"
The couple lived on Church Street in Cynthiana
until their death. They were in sight of the Baptist Church they
attended. They were involved in civic and community work. They wanted a
community center in the town.
Conrad said of his long life with the love of
his life in Cynthiana, "I go back to Louisiana to visit my people
but Cynthiana is my home." They had one daughter, Cathy. She buried
them together in his adopted town.